Even love can be biased, and it comes in a cruel way
Love, like all aspects of life, is heavily influenced by our biases. Our beliefs, values, and actions shape our perception of love, particularly within intimate relationships. Our biases are often rooted in our childhood experiences and we seek partners who embody our values and desires. However, it is common for us to establish unrealistic expectations, which may lead to conflicts and disappointment
We can only love as much as we love ourselves
In any relationship, both partners bring their individual biases and perspectives. Even if they share similar values, their interpretation of those values may differ. Therefore, finding a partner who shares our biases does not guarantee a successful relationship
The question of how to acquire the love we desire is a common one, yet we seldom consider how to do so without biases. I posit that cultivating compassion can assist us in achieving this goal. Compassion fosters communication and understanding between partners, resulting in a shared outlook. It is not just beneficial for the relationship, but also for our personal development journey
But what is love?
Biases are a natural component of any relationship. However, by cultivating compassion, we can establish a common ground for communication and understanding, resulting in a love that is free from biases
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